Distance can make the heart grow fonder..

  1. I must say sometimes after so many years of being with your spouse it can make your heart grow fonder, if of course it is due to distance. If they live with you and no longer coversate and would rather watch a television show instead of spending time with you then there very well may be a problem. No matter how far you go to meet your significant other in the middle and they don’t meet you at least half way. If one partner don’t show the other that they are willing to go that extra mile well that is when the word LOVE and it’s whole meaning is questioned. True love these days is so hard to find, all because Lust is more sought then Love in general sad to say isnt as meaningful as it once was. I remember when I first met my husband, he would point out all my good qualities , but now he can name all my flaws and I see him when he sleeps. Even if I come to spend time with him he just goes to sleep or is to into a TV show to say a word to me, he doesn’t try which I’m sure the outcome won’t be so great. He works in a mall full of women and can talk to them all day about God knows what and he can even give them good compliments, but he can’t give me one. So you can see how a spark and a love so true can have a flame burn out and become an old flame then they go chase something new only to find that, it might be new but it was nothing like they had. I guess we all learn from our mistakes but sometimes we have to live with those mistakes and then sometimes we have to live without them. So if you love someone don’t spend all your time putting them down and reminding them of all the flaws they have, they already know them all and if someone truly loves them they make sure to find the good qualities if they are constantly pointing out thwme bad then they are looking for someone to blame other than themselves, this is what I call”Foolish Pride”. If you truly love someone you will set time aside and try your best to make them feel good about themselves. Don’t try to put them down and point your finger at the person you say you love. Actions speak louder than words and all that will do is show them how you can belittle them. Then after all that they will just walk away the distance won’t make the heart grow fonder after you have already broken it.💕💏💒 Quote: Foolish Pride and Love Don’t Collide

With All My Heart

Yes, that’s my dad. He sure has been through a lot this month. This man I have looked up to my whole life. Here lately I have seen him go through so much. He has heart surgery and he is a diabetic. If you do read my post send a prayer up for my daddy and yes I have and always will be a daddy’s girl. Mentally and physically I am drained. I never see my husband and since its not his father he decided not to go with me during my dad’s surgery. Your supposed to be there for your spouse that you Love. I do know and many of you know the word Love id so deep. It should only be used when you mean it. I take it very seriously when I use the word Love and so should all if you. We are never promised a tomorrow and we should always live each day to better ourselves in life. Sometimes some don’t know how to express Love they just say it. Its only a word unless you back it up with actions from the heart. ❤ Always be there for your mother and father, you have one chance at life to do this and there will be no future of you intending to do this because the future is what we make of it and they days we open our eyes we have that opportunity. So each day think of the word Love and make it happen.

My Opinion For Hollywood

  I can’t believe when you get on Google and you just say want to read up on one of your favorite movies or maybe one of your favorite actors and what do you see??? GOSSIP!!!! WTF- Yes I can be very bold when I want to be. Can you imagine one of your favorite actors being caught up in it. Those stupid articles full of lies!!!! Yeah, some may be true but damn mind your own business we are all entitled to our one shot at life. No I’m far from perfect, I’m just on the outside looking in and it’s a damn shame. I do have a few famous friends I talk to every once and a while and id never say their name to draw more attention. These people are just trying to live their lives as normal as they can be with a camera shoved up their ass show some respect people. Sorry had to rant. #Yourstorymatters #Evenforthecelebrities 


Okay, so I haven’t got on in a long while, lots of things racing through this mind of mine. But I have finally put a grasp on it. I want to get out there and notice every single one of you,  but until then you can get to know me on here. Every weekend I have been going through this agony of hell with my husband it may start with beer and end in liquor. It’s not the drinking alone that gets on my nerves it is how he starts belittling me and dragging me down and then as Gary Allen would say walking on me like a door mat. If he had my life in his hands, he would totally change me as a person. Each and every one of us is special I’m our own way if someone comes and changes who we are then we are no longer that special person that we once are. We all have these big hopes and dreams in life and here I am pushing forty and my husband pointing out all of my flaws as a person. I just want to throw this out here, all we have is right now excuse my French but the hell with whatever everyone else thinks do you and make your own story. I am a battered woman physically and emotionally both and that is what makes me the strong woman I am today so bring it. Before I reach the age of forty I want to be everything I have always wanted to be. That takes hard work and determination and to throw out all the negative idiots that get in my way and try to stop me. Join me and be everything you have always wanted to be and more in Your Story Matters and so do each and everyone of you.  God Bless you and much love your life is in YOUR OWN HANDS.



 Is it just me or does life get more complicated as you get older. I grew up in The Hollar, Chandler Drive Hollar to be exact. Growing up there wasn’t much electronics, we went to the Chandler Drive Rec Center for fun. Playing games of Truth or Dare on the steps. Having slumber parties we were all Family. We still are. My parents bought a club house in the 30’s and turned it into a house. That’s were me and my brother Travis and little sister Elaine get up, me the oldest. I’m Crystal by the way, our life was fun, we made plenty of memories the ones you cherish forever and everyone was paired up. We would all get together at the dances that Tony would have at the park, everyone would get all dolled up and go. I met my first love at one of my neighbors houses her name was Virginia she took me to met her best friends brother Gabe and yeah that is were the first strings in my heart was pulled. We dated forever it seemed, I would get so excited to go up Rush Creek to see him and stay all night. Those were the days. His hair was long black and wore it back in a bandanna and a pony tail. He had these cut dark brown puppy dog eyes which I adored. He seemed to love me as much as I loved him, then one day he said he was babysitting and I could just stay home. So I gathered my things that night and went to my friend Heather’s house to stay all night. We had fun till the next morning , someone called and said he was at my friend Virginia’s house with her cousin. I immediately got dressed went up there and sure enough there he laid in the floor with her. So I reacted by kicking him in the head and saying Really? Virginia’s cousin got up apologizing and went to the bathroom. This is the first heartbreak I had ever known. I went home crying and told my mom and she told me there would be plenty more and well there was , but the next one was my first True Love, his name was Matt and well that is another story..

“Open another chapter”

 Well this week I watched the final episode of Vampire Diaries, as I have a million and one ideas of the books I’m writing. I cried on the final episode, my favorite TVD show I’d now just on DVD. I find that disturbing. I guess no more Salvatore brothers to watch on Friday’s.  I guess they all have opened new chapters as well in their lives. Me on the other hand my new chapter will be getting these books done. You never know if you have real talent, until you have an audience who admires your work as well as you do yourself. Also, in writing comes research which I have tons I have been doing. I hope my books come out as well as I have planned, I have no clue if I could ever compare to Julie Plec, but at least I can say I tried right? I think romance in a book or television series makes it more interesting. Yes, I can’t complain there was a June wedding, but what about Damon and Elenas wedding? Yes, I seen a ring on her finger, but I wish there could have been a glimpse of their happiness and I’m glad she didn’t kill them both off, but poor Stephen right. So sad, I’m just stuck in the middle of were I’m writing. Of course my main focus in my book is about Angels and Vampires and I feel like I need a title which you would think that would be the easiest part, but not for me. It seems to be the hardest. Well I guess enough blabbering and a must do is in my near future. I’ll list some of my ideas in my post and please feel free to comment on what you like, and what you think could be better. Much love to all and to all a Goodnight and God Bless

♡Practice Makes Perfect♡

 Well this February on the 26th ill be 37 years old. I still have a lot of hopes and dreams things I want to happen, so in all reality I need to work on the thing I want to happen. I know as us women get older we get more out of our minds haha. Yeah, but we do we start worrying about wrinkles, thinking more into life as we go through the change of life. So the little things we do on a day to day basis. We need to do to improve how we feel, if we look good to ourselves who gives a rats ass whatever everyone else thinks. It’s what you think that matters. Don’t ever forget that…Your Story Matters and so do you. ♡♡♡♡♡♡♡

A Crying Heart Celebrity 

This picture is worth a thousand words, it is so good to see the three of them together smiling. I’m glad they are all happy, im kinda sad though over Vampire Diaries ending. That was my favorite show. Maybe now Nikki and Ian and hell maybe even Nina can make a similar Television show. I think it’s great they are all together as good friends that’s awesome. Good picture you all. One of your biggest fans from Your Story Matters♡♡♡

Angel Bite (The Dream)

  •  I thought it would be another sleepless night. I never dream, but yeah id love to escape reality from time to time and have a dream. I guess with my crazy life I thought my life was too good to have a nice dream. Then I moved from living with my mom in North Caroina to living with my dad in West Virginia, big change, but I never imagined what happened well last night, I dreamed!!!!! It was one of those dreams that you never want to forget. In my dream I thought I looked beautiful, my self confidence these days was low, but in this dream. I seen a man that I felt drawn too. He was absolutely something I was destined to do by God, I felt like I was sent here to help him…then I walked across my bedroom and looked in the mirror wondering am I really dreaming??? I looked different vibrant, my hair didn’t look so brittle, but beautiful and vibrant. A new me and as I was admiring myself in the mirror I seen something that disturbed me, bite marks??? Then the man reappeared and said I have been looking for you for a long time. I smiled and said you have? He said yes for I have lost my way..he said my name is Michael what’s yours I said Destiny and he said so be it and it’s true you shall be my Destiny.

New Years, New ways…

Happy New year to everyone who eventually reads my story. When I think of the New Year, I think about life in general. Life is way too short to stress the little things. Yeah, sometimes I have these horrible panic attacks that overwhelms me. Im working on that. I have a dream to get started on my books. One fiction and one non-fiction. You make a million and one excuses why not to do something. You have got to change it up. Little things matter, how you act to people matters. What if it was the very last time that you got to see that person. So rise above your pride or stubborn ways and try to find the good in people. Treat others the way you want to be treated. Take time for yourself and the little things you enjoy. Sometimes fantasy is a lot better than reality go there from time to time and take a moment to enjoy it. For New Years take out a piece of paper and write down all the things you desire in this life and give it your all to try to find the ways to make it all happen. I’ll be writing my books soon so stay tuned for more stories from Your Story Matters. Happy New Years everyone!!♡♡♡♡♡♡♡